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Spanking Examples - Part 3This is the third set of spanking examples I am relating and the same proviso holds as before. It should be understood that the spanker (or 'top') is an instrument and his/her spanking has no sexual overtones. I do not get involved sexually with the clients and this is made clear from the outset. Even when her knickers are taken down the client's vagina and pubic hair is hardly ever seen as she always has her back to me. When receiving requests one can do ones best to prepare but the spanker is never certain until he/she reaches the client what is involved. This is the shortest experience I was ever involved in but for all that it was very moving. I was called to see a middle-aged lady who was living on her own and she asked me to sit down as she wanted to explain her request. It appears that while a child she had cheeked her mother and run away. Her mother had chased after her saying that she would "tan her bottom" for her when she caught her. The mother had slipped on the kitchen floor and hit her head. She was taken to hospital and never really recovered fully always afterwards being prone to headaches. The mother had recently died and the girl (now middle-aged) admitted that she had always felt guilty about running away as she felt that she was to blame for the accident. She would now like to be spanked EXACTLY as her mother would have done if she had caught her. In her mind she felt that this would be the punishment she had never received. She wanted me to play out her experience, catch her, turn her over my knee and then lifting her skirt pull down her knickers and give her twenty very hard smacks with the hair brush on her bottom. She still had the original hairbrush and she also wanted that used. A spanker gets many strange requests and so I was happy to go along with this one. She went into the living room and I called her to me in the kitchen. I told her what a naughty girl she was and that I was going to give her a good hard spanking so she should fetch the hair brush from her room. The lady left the kitchen and shortly returned looking very downcast with the hairbrush. It was a large old-fashioned one with a wooden back and I knew that it would hurt but I also knew that this pain was important to the lady's peace of mind. I pulled her towards me and bent her over the table in the kitchen, lifted her skirt up and pulled down her knickers. I then took up the hairbrush and, as this was punishment and meant to be there was no warmup. As I gave her the first spanks she was soon crying and by the time we had reached ten she was obviously in great pain. However this was an instance where a safe word would have been no use. It was important for the lady that she was punished hard to expiate in her own mind the guilt she had felt for the past few years. She started crying and saying that she was very sorry but I told her it was too late for that and gave her the other ten. The last five I laid on with real venom as I knew that this was what she wanted while she screamed and threw her legs about. At the end I told her to stand up and not to misbehave again. She stood rubbing her bottom and with very red eyes still sparkling with tears, thanked me for my help and told me that although the experience had been very painful she felt better and more relaxed in her mind now and was sure that her mother would have approved. I then left. The lady telephoned me a week or so later to thank me again and say that her bottom was still recovering from the punishment but she no longer felt guilty and could now go on with her life. Once upon a time - but I guess you have heard that before - I was asked to spank a lady and her husband. This is VERY unusual as it is usually the lady who is spanked and the husband who watches. This was a couple new to the scene who were interested but inexperienced and thought that before trying they should get expert help. I was chosen and it was very unusual in that I was now to be a teacher as well as a spanker. The couple were friends who knew I wen to spanking parties. We were having a drink together one evening when Phil and Angela asked if they could speak to me in confidence. I said of course. They said they knew I used to go to spanking clubs and although they didn't want to go to one themselves they would like to learn how to spank because they had tried once or twice and though they were sure they wanted to do it it hadn't worked out. They wanted my help and advice. What would I suggest. After thinking about the problem I suggested that the best way was to let me spank both of them and, at the same time, they could try themselves. I would be there to make sure everything went OK. They looked at each other nodded and Phil asked when could we start. I told them that it would have to be at the weekend as we would need several hours, even possibly two evenings to show them how, what and why. I would bring my 'toys' round the following Saturday at six pm and we could make a start. I must insist however before I agreed that they must put themselves completely in my hands and do everything I told them. I promised that there was no bondage and nothing obscene involved but I knew what to do and must be allowed to do it. I arrived just before six on the Saturday evening with my bag of toys and told them to sit down, we would have a drink and I would take them through what was to happen. At they same time I would show them my instruments. I would not explain their use until we were working. I suggested that they toss for who was to start and that they would then alternate with me followed after each session with a short period trying out on each other. This was agreed and Angela lost the toss. The house had a good sofa and I told her that this is where we would start. Phil should sit close enough to see everything. They could ask any questions they wanted as we progressed. I told Angela to lay across my knees with her head on my left. She did so and I started spanking her bottom over her dress alternating buttocks and regularly massaging and stimulating the bottom. I explained that the start of anything but punishment spanking was to warm the bottom up. The hand stimulated the nerves in the buttocks sand the massaging stopped it becoming dead and inert. I carried on for about five minutes and then raised the dress above Angela's hips so that her knickers were exposed. The bottom was now beginning to get red. I continued for about thirty spanks, at the same time gently spanking the upper thighs - this was very softly as an erotic stimulant - before telling her that I was going to lower her knickers and EVERYTHING from now on would be on her bare behind. Still massaging as I spanked I gave another twenty before saying that I was was going to finish with ten hard spanks. I tapped the thighs and then cracked in several hard spanks first to one buttock and then the other. She squealed a little but other wise seemed very relaxed. I stopped at this point told her to pull her knickers up and asked if either of them had any questions before I spanked Phil. They said that they would wait until I had spanked him. Phil laid himself across my knees and I went through exactly the same procedure before coming to a halt and telling him to get up. I then asked if they had any questions and they wanted to know how many spanks at each stage, why I massaged the bottom, why the knickers remained in position and were then pulled down. I tried to explain that I was demonstrating sensual spanking. They were a loving couple who wanted to enhance their love life so I was showing them the way to raise the libido - not spank for punishment. I told them that we would work thorough all the instruments over the next two nights. They looked at the clock and were surprised that over an hour had passed since we started. I then suggested that they try out the first lesson on each other while I watched and advised. I also explained that with lovers they could slap and massage gently around the vagina or ballsack - something I as a spanker could not do. Angela went over Phil's lap and he started smacking her - sounded wonderful but very ineffective. His hand was open and slapping down and it was also try to cover both buttocks at once. I adjusted it and he started again. This was much better the sound and effect were now working. I had to remind him that he must massage as well as spank and spank one buttock at a time with the hand. But he soon learned and had her knickers down for the final spanking and massaging which was much more erotic than I would have done as he caressed between her legs, flicking with his fingers. Angela told me she had felt the difference after my coaching and now wanted to try on Phil. She turned him over her knee and showed that she had learned her lessons well because her power was more precise and the effect was better. She also began to have his cock sticking out between her legs Phil told us ruefully that she had a mean hand and the erotic feel had given him a hard. It was now Angelas's turn to receive the paddle from me so I told her to take down her knickers and remove her dress before she went back across my knees. She did so and when she was in position I could see that the buttocks were already well reddened. I told her that I would give her ten swats each with two paddles. One was older and 'tireder' while the other was new and would strike crisply. She prepared herself and I started. The paddle cracked down on the left buttock and then the right, three times on each side before I stroked the cheeks and massaged the bottom. Then four more. I told her that the next paddle was harder and would not make such a slap but she would notice the sting was greater. Again three on each buttock before I massaged and explained that this where lovers would again do their own thing. I gave her the final four. She admitted that these last ten had stung harder than the earlier ones but she was still looking forward to more. Then it was Phil's turn and he also noticed the difference. Finally they tried the paddle on each other and again the hands strayed well beyond the target area showing that their sexuality was being aroused. There questions were again pertinent. Why the different paddles. I tried to explain that this was the most impossible of all to deal with. In the US every spanker, every fraternity at University has its own paddle. Some were like ping pong bats, others like small cricket bats with all styles and sizes in between. The best were ether unvarnished wood or leather paddles. Varnish should never be used on any instrument as it takes away all the 'give' and leaves a lethal weapon. If you buy a paddle or cane which has been varnished beat it out on some leather other soft surface to remove the varnish. When the questioning was finished they were ready to try more and I told them that we had one more toy for tonight and then I would leave them until tomorrow. This was the whip and needed the client to be naked for the best effect. These were friends, good friends, who had absolute trust in my judgement when I announced this. I told them that I did this on a regular basis with clients and hardly ever saw them from the front - my business was with the back. I told them both to get completely undressed and if they were embarrassed to put a towel or something around them until I was ready to start but they saw the humour of the situation and paraded naked pointing out to each other how red their buttocks were. When they were ready I told Angela to lay face down on the sofa with a cushion under her thighs. I explained that what I was now going to do was not something I would ever do with clients as it was too erotic and beyond the spankers role. However as I was working to show a husband and wife I would continue if they would accept that I would be touching their private parts. The main part of this I would leave to them but I must show them the correct way to use a whip so as not to hurt each other. They understood this and Phil sat down to watch as I worked on Angela. I mad her lay of her stomach with her legs apart. The whip was soft chamois leather with nine tails. I showed them how to hold it before I started teasing her buttocks and back with the whip. I then brought it down three times sharply across the top of the buttocks bringing up red lines across them., Then I flicked it between her legs making sure that I titillated the vulva. I then slashed it down again three more times stroking her buttocks with my hand and letting my fingers just ease between her legs. I looked at Phil and nodded down so he could see what I was doing. He watched carefully and then raised his thumb. I then told Angela to turn over and began to use the whip on her breasts flicking them with the whip, letting it run up and down from her neck to her groin. Always moving always gentle. I finally told her to turn over and applied the whip firmly four more times across the buttocks. She sat up "Wow! That was incredible. We must have one of those. Try it on Phil now." I made Phil lay down and again after beating him across the buttocks several times I dd the same as with Angela, titillating him around the ball sack. Beating and stroking his back before finally giving him half a dozen strong spanks. He sat up and agreed with Angela. I told them that I would give them one or two warnings and then leave them to experiment as I could see that both of them were well aroused. I told them never to let their emotions carry them away when they were spanking as this leads to them hurting their partner as they then do not know when to stop. To use the hands and fingers constantly to caress, massage and titillate the buttocks and between the legs. Finally I would leave the whip for them to play with. They could do no harm with it as the leather was soft but NEVER to hit the vulva, breast or ballsack hard as this could damage them. They thanked me quickly confirmed we would meet again the next night and left me to find my own way out as they began experimenting. I will tell the second evening of this lesson in Spanking Examples Part 4. Follow the links to sensual spanking and the spanking instruments page |
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