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Spanking Examples - Part 10 - FailuresThroughout all the successes I have had in satisfying the bottoms of ladies of all ages there have been a number of failures. I am sure that some are due to my techniques which do not suit everbody and the other is that the 'fantasy' diasppoints when 'reality' intervenes. I will try to offer some short notes on both types so that before ladies visit they are aware of these eventualities. She came from Manchester Mrs 'x' contacted me by email and started to write about her fantasies. As the messages proliferated she kept offering a variety of scenarios all based on her ideas. She gradually developed this into a scenario where I would meet her at the door and lead her into the louge which would be darkened except for candles. I would then take her over my knee and start to spank her bottom, lifting her skirt and exposing her knickers. I should then caress and spank over the knickers and then the bare bum. Afterwards we would eat and drink before she would present herself for the strap and the cane. It was just after Christmas when she telephoned to say that she would like to visit and work through her scenario. She would arrive in the evening and remain until morning. It was 8pm when she did arrive and as requested I prepared the room but from the moment she came across my lap I was uneasy After many years as a spanker it is instinctive to know the reactions of a lady within minutes of the spanking starting and here it was not working. She wriggled as soon as I started spanking over her dress and as soon as I lifted the dress she pulled it down saing "You are not going to lift my dress already?". I continued but within a minute or two she was in tears and it was obvious she was NOT enjoying the experience. I lifted her andtalked to her and it was clear that she had read all the stories and got very turned on by them She had dreamed of the way it would happen to her but now she found that the sting of the hand she did not like. I comforted her and explained that for some people the fantasy was their reality and helped her out to her car where she left for home. I felt sorry for her but was glad she had come to me as once I had felt the negative vibrations I was able to stop and send her home. My experience is that some ladies have found out to their cost that not all 'spankers' will stop when a session is started and they finish up traumatised. Desparate to Succeed They were a lovely couple who emailed me asking to talk and when they telephoned from the conversation it appeared that they had had disageements and she felt that she wanted a salutary punishment to deal with the matter. I agreed to see them and they were so keen that they came from long way way and booked in at a local hotel overnight.When they arrived I was worried as the lady was VERY slim and experience has shown that the narrow and unfurnished bum does not take the rod as well as the more opulent bottom. She explained that she had proposed this herself as a way of dealing with their differences and both of them would eventually be caned. I took her over my knees while her husband sat in a chair opposite playing with his cock. I spanked over her dress and got little reaction so lifted it up and saw, as I feared, that under her thong her buttocks had little flesh on them and were likely to bruise easily. However I continued spanking and it soon became apparent that she was suddering considerable discomfort without any of the concommitent that most ladies get. We rested before we went to my flogging bench. Her husband agree to be first and I strapped him hard across his bare bum before it was time for his wife. I started lightly but even this application was bruising her and it was clear to me that it woud be dngerous and unpleasant for all parties for me to continue. We all agreed and after a suitable application of the cane to her husband they dressed and left apoligising. I pointed out that no blame attached to anybody and his wife was just not designed for this type of punishemt. There is a sequel because a fortnight later I had a plea from the lady to try again and I reluctantly agreed. Sadly the result was the same - failure - and I have heard nothing further from them. I wish them well as it was the fault of nobody that she was unable to take spanking in any form at all because of her body shape. Tall and willowy. Follow the links to sensual spanking and the spanking instruments page |
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