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Examples of Punishment Spanking

This initially starts in a similar way to the Sensuous Spanking in that contact is made by a lady who requires punishment

In this section I am going to take you through from the start the way I develop a punishment spanking session.

First I must say that the differences between sensual an punishment are profound. With sensual and erotic spanking we have mixture of 'pain, play and pleasure', while with punishment spanking the whole session is dominated by the need to get the bottom into prime condition to 'thrash' the bottom severely.

What is severely? This is where expertise is so important. To one lady a few strokes of the strap and cane are enough while to another a session can consist of forty or fifty with the strap and three or more dozen with the cane.The experienced disciplinarian will soon see which category his lady comes into and will proceed accordingly. One lady who visited me recently had contacted a man .on the internet and ent to his hotel where she was caned. He hurt her badly, hitting in the wrong place, and afterwards when he saw her problems cried saying he had never caned a lady before but 'had a fantasy to do so'.

The true disciplinarian is like a professional in any other caing organisation and will watch carefully and tailor his punishment to the individual. Experience shows that if you can leave the lady saying "I think I could have taken more" you have reached the right balance and the next time she visits she will be receptive to more punishment.

The disciplinarian will NEVER spank anywhere except on the bottom when offering disciplinary spanking and strokes across the thighs are unacceptable and strokes given too high can be dangerous. Pussy and nipple spanking are also either for slaves or in a light form as part of erotic spanking.

Before the visit.

(Here we start as the erotic and sensual spanking - the personal contact). It all begins when the lady telephones me to make an appointment. Here we discuss generally her needs and my approach and we then set up a time and date for her visit to me. Let me establish here that ladies visit me on a CONFIDENTIAL basis and all I request is a Christian name.

When the time and date have been agreed I recommend that they should dress in bra, panties or 'g' string, suspender belt and stockings. They should wear a dress with a wide skirt. If they prefer to travel in trousers they should change on arrival. Finally as many of my visitors are middle aged and well built I point out that size is not important but interest in spanking and being spanked is the only criteria.

On Arrival

The arrival of my visitor (let us call her Brenda) is always fraught as she was doubts, I do not know her and we both have to make contact quickly. When she enters the first thing I say to her is that
"Welcome! Please understand that you are now under my control but nothing will happen that you don't wish to happen. Subject to that you are in my hands. Do you understand and agree."

We then sit down and talk through why a lady is coming for a punishment spanking. As with the Sensuous spanking I will take you through a typical session from arrival to departure. We will call the lady Brenda for this example.
"My name is (Brenda) and I have a senior hospital position. Because of my job I am frequently brought into contact with staff when complaints about them have been received. If a complaint is received then I have to investigate it and part of this is to interview the staff member accused. Obviously this can create tensions and sometimes I feel like screaming and shouting but have never done so. Reading about anger management I saw that tensions can be released by in physical ways and a friend of mine showed me your web site and said that my condition seemed to be similar to one or two of your examples. I must admit I have been interested in spanking for many years but never plucked up the courage to try it. I know that I am sometimes unjust in my decisions and need to be purged with a punishment spanking. Another time I could be interested in a sensuous spanking but this must be punishment. Can you help?"<,/p>

"Certainly but you must understand that a punishment spanking means what it says and once I have started I decide when to stop. I promise you that although it will be painful and humiliating there will be nothing permanent" If you agree we can start immediately. You will also call me Sir at all times"

She agreed and I told her to come across my lap. Here I hand spanked her over her dress for several minutes before lifting her dress and spanking her over her knickers.

I now lowered her knickers and saw that her bum which was full and fleshy already glowed a warm red. I continued spanking on her bare bum for several minutes, some hard, some soft, fast and slow while her bum got redder and redder. I told her to remove her skirt and bend over the back of a chair. I took up my strap and using it I beat her buttocks about thirty times while she grunted with the pain. Her bum was now a fiery rather than a gentle red and the lines of the strap showed.

I stopped and told her to stand in the corner with her hands on her head. If she touched her bum I would give her more strokes of the strap. I then continued with my own work for ten minutes while she stood and waited. I stood up.

"You will go into my office and after removing the rest of your clothes bend over my flogging bench. Do you understand?"

"Yes Sir!"

I followed her into the office and found that as instructed she was now naked and bent over the flogging bench. I strapped her hands and feet to the sides and inspected her. The marks of the strap were now disappearing and she was ripe for her punishment. The rest would be all punishment.

I took my punishment paddle and brought it down sharply on both cheeks a dozen times. She did not cry out but gasped. Her bum was again a rosy red. Now it was the turn of the Scottish tawse and this was a weapon to be feared. I massaged her bum and felt the heat in it before lashing the tawse down in four tranches of six strokes. her bum had again turned to fire and darker purple marks were also visible. I stopped, unfastened her and told her to stand in the corner with her hands on her head. She took up her place and I gave it several minutes before I told her to stand in front of me and remind me of why she was here.

"Yes Sir. I was unjust to some of my staff and I need to be punished.

"Good. Now bend over the bench again. This time I will not fasten you in position but any movement and the stroke will be repeated. I am now going to cane you. I will give you as many strokes as I deem necessary and you will NOT move or cry out."

She bent over and I took up my punishment cane. I lined up and tapped her buttocks before slashing it down. She cried out.

"If you cry out again the stroke will not count>"

I now gave her six strokes and massaged her bum after. Then I gave another six. She was in agony but although she wept silently she did not cry. By now her buttocks were ridged with red and purple lines as the bruises came out.

I rested for a minute or two to allow the pain to take hold and then gave her the next dozen leaving a decent interval between each stroke so that it had the maximum effect.

"You have done very well so far. Do not let me down now."

Now it was time for the final dozen and after a gentle six I made sure that the last six gave a proper end to her thrashing. By the end it was clear that enough was enough and I put the cane down and told her to stand up.

"Congratulations and I hope that this will be effective. Don't touch your bum as I will now deal with it in a gentler way. I led her into the lounge and, back across my knees naked,poured baby oil on the afflicted parts. I then spent the next ten minutes or so gently massaging it in while she lay relaxed beneath me.

However hard the punishment I find that this is a help and loosens the tightness in the buttocks as they drive home.

A week later I had an email from Brenda

Dear Alan
When I came I never thought a 'punishment spanking' would be so comprehensive and I am only just losing the last of the lines. You certainly know how, and where, to lay it on. I honestly thought that I would get through that caning but I am glad I did.
I would like to come again soon but explore the sensuous side of spanking. As you were hand-spanking me, and later, I felt what might be called and affinity with with spanking.
Looking forward to coming again when commitments allow - and I can promise you that the caning has certainly changed my attitude to 'staff relations' and I am much calmer.
(Brenda)

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The next example is of a lady who has felt guilty over a secret for a number of years and she needed a severe punishment spanking to 'purge' her.. Here is her letter

I want to arrange a punishment spanking. As a child I had an uncle who saw himself as a strict disciplinarian and who punished using his hand, belt, switches cut from trees and garden cane. (I paraphrase - He died before he could punish me for a major misdemeanour).................................. I have felt guilty for the last 35 years for this and want to finally put it behind me. I feel that the only way is to accept the kind of punishment he would have approved of and wanted to deliver himself. I tried this once before but chose the wrong person - he wanted me to enjoy being spanked and caned and kept assuring me that I was in control. For this session I would want to give over control completely and accept whatever you felt was appropriate. Could you do this for me?
Elana (not her name)

Now a punishment spanking of this magnitute must be given with discipline by the spanker. He must harden his heart to the cries of the lady and use the signs on her bottom to advise hime when to stop.

Elana arrived exactly on time for her punishment. As always we started by handspanking to tone up the bottom and by the end she was naked to the waist and her bum was a brilliant rosy red. I then sent her into my office with instructions to remove the rest of her clothes and stand by the flogging bench. When I arrived she was ready. She bent over the bench and I fastened her wrists and ankles to the sides of the bench with straps. She was now prepared.

I took up my lightweight strap and warmed her up with two dozen across both buttocks with it. Now I took the heavy Lochgally Tawse and beginning to up the power gave her one dozen with it. For the first time she reacted as the Tawse bit into her and drove the breath from her body. She bucked a little.

I now took my three foot punishment cane and, measuring up, gave her one dozen cuts across the centre of her bum. These. raised red lines. I then released her and told her to stand with her hands on her head until I returned. I went back several minutes later and she still remained in position. I now fastened her down again and took my second, slightly longer cane and gave her two dozen hard stokes at intervals of about ten seconds. She bucked and cried out as these were delivered.

Again I released her and made her stand waiting . By now some of the lines were turning dark and purples as they etched themselves into her flesh. I was satisfied that she could still take more and returned her to the bench. One dozen with the Lochgally across hte heavily marked bum had her crying out and rearing against the restraints again. <

Now was the final 'tranche' with the cane and these two dozen strokes were designed to give the full and final punishment she needed. Each time the cane fell she cried out and lifted her body from the bench but this punishment had to go to its conclusion. Looking at her bum although it was scarred and heavily marked it was still intact and no cuts from the cane had appeared. I blindfolded her so that she could not see and react and then gave her the final ten strokes which paid for all. She cried out at each stroke but when I released her and she stood up she was brusied and battered but still intact. The punishemnt had been delivered, she agreed it had been necessary and was now complete.

Finally comes the more pleasant part. She comes back across my knees and I rub baby oil into her fiery buttocks. I rub and massage for several minutes. This is essential as when clients are travelling home their buttocks tighten with the punishment and the oil relaxes the bum and makes sitting in the car more bearable.

Elane came for a one off and I am unlikely to see or hear from her again whereas several of my 'business ladies' receive similar punishment but return again and again as their tensions build.