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Introduction to SpankingThis site is about Spanking - not bondage - not punishment beatings but SPANKING. What does this mean?  It means that I spank ladies and their partners who require SPANKING discipline to enhance their lives or would like to try spanking as an add on to their erotic play. All spanking is consensual and nothing takes place which is not agreed between the client and myself. I am not into 'bondage' or heavy punishment. To find out more about this go to my page What Happens When you are Spanked. People like myself who call ourselves 'professionals' are always concerned at the 'macho' men who fill the pages of the contact magazines and Spanking personals with their offers to 'spank women' - for them it is just another excuse for sex with a different 'turn on'. However like any other 'profession' it is skilled and requires great experience to make sure that the event turns into exactly what the client requires. Several times I have had ladies visit who have found men on 'personals websites' and found the meeting unsatisfactory becaue their partner is either inexperienced or is using it as an excuse to ses. Please understand that sexual pleasure can be part of spanking but not necessarily and end product. Why be Spanked? For many ladies and gentlemen(but please understand my site is based around ladies) there is a feeling of guilt over something they have done in their lives and for which they have not been found out. These people often harbour this guilt feeling until they can purge it in someway. Corporal punishment can often be the catharsis for them. It finally allows them to put the problem behind them having accepted punishment. What happens if you Contact me Let me stress that everything between us is confidential. I like to discuss your wishes on the telephone first and ascertain what you require. On the next page of the site I will explain some of the possible options and scenarios. Everything must be agreed between me and the spankee or "bottom" in advance. Some people worry about the telephone. To make sure that it is confidential I have an 'unlisted' mobile number which the potential client is given. They are invited to call this number using 141 - call-barring - on their own telephone so that I have no idea from where they are calling. Only then do we begin to arrange to meet. Who do you Spank? I only spank ladies except when their partners wish to join them. This is a personal choice as all my experience has been spanking ladies and I find I can satisfy them. Many have said after a session that What I enjoyed most was that to you I came first and it was my 'pain and pleasure' that mattered.I encourge a telephone chat before deciding on whether a lady visits as this allows them to ask any questions they have. I also suggest they wait twenty-four hours before committing themself to a visit. It is very easy for erotic overtones to dominate the telephone conversation leading to an instant commitment which, after mature consideration, she wishes to retract. For a very few the fantasy not the reality is what they need and in these cases (two in fourteen years) I stop spanking immediately and advise them against me continuing. Again I recommend reading the Spanking Examples to find out more. 
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