Spanking Classes and Courses
This site is about Spanking - not bondage - not punishment beatings but SPANKING
Please note that this is EXACTLY what it says.
Classes and Courses
As I said in earlier pages I am an experienced Spanker and am willing to help and advise any potential clients who would like to get in touch with me.
There is no obligation to participate actively.
I am based in East Anglia and run regular weekend classes and courses for ladies and couples.
I often find that ladies and their partners are interested in spanking and want to try it for the first time, or have got bored with their sex lives and are looking for new ways to stimulate themselves.
I hold regular classes for ladies and couples such as these.
Age and size are no barriers. I often find that couples in their forties and upwards are the most enthusiastic to experiment as children have grown up, moved away and the couple are left on their own to explore their sensuality without being inhibited.
The classes are held in private at my home for a full day or there is also the chance to join for a weekend course. Please understand that these are NOT spanking clubs but genuine classes for the "searcher after spanking knowledge"
Courses are always private and no 'voyeurs' are allowed.
The next courses are due on 27th & 28th September and 22nd & 23rd November subject to the correct numbers applying.(No more than THREE couples or THREE unaccompanied ladies are accepted on any course.
Videos or cameras are allowed subject to the agreement of the participants.
NO men without partners are accepted
Why should you come?
There are several reasons:
Privacy & safety concerns. We advise you about the hazards of spanking and the safe use of instruments
How to stimulate the desire of surrender in the person you wish to control on an erotic level
How and when to introduce your partner to what you secretly want
Playing with erotic language, tools and wardrobe
Recognising submissive desires in strong, assertive partners
Myths and realities of pain and pleasure
Shopping suggestions for instruments and fetish clothing
New inexperienced spankers who are not sure how to proceed can learn from an expert
Ladies or couples who are not sure whether they will enjoy spanking
Experienced spankers who find that they want to explore new experiences and extend their repertoire have the chance to experiment
I have a large selection of spanking instruments for you to play with. Some I recommend while others I advise against!
Help and advice on SAFE spanking
It is impossible for me to give a detailed itinerary as every one is different but here is the probable way the course proceeds with three ladies.
The course members arrive and we have a drink and introduce ourselves. We then have a light lunch at which we discuss the programme. Usually the ladies are shy of me, and of each other, so I try to put them at ease. I then explain what spanking is about and the different ways it affects different people.
They must not assume that they will feel the same as their colleagues on the course
Some will also find that they do NOT enjoy it and these should not feel guilty
Some will feel dominant and others submissive
Some will find the experience erotic while other prefer punishment spanking
And so on as we discuss and the questions are answered
It is now the time to start the spanking
I am not going through the full details of this except to say that I am trying to ENCOURAGE them to enjoy spanking not put them off. We then discuss what has happened and I deal with each girl in turn. The order of 'play' is chosen by highest card so that nobody needs look at each other or volunteer. Initially I do all the hand-spanking myself showing how to do it for maximum effect. If they want to try spanking themselves, and the other members agree, they take turns. We have regular rests and gradually move on to the various instruments, always remembering that I am trying to help them find their level.
The evening finishes a final talk about the experience and what they feel about continuing. If they are remaining for the weekend we have a further session after breakfast on Sunday morning with a chance after lunch for them to spank each other for a final time while I supervise to see they are spanking correctly. They finish with sore bottoms but most want to return on a 1-2-1, or at least continue with their partner.
When I have a couple I follow the same pattern except that after the initial spankings much of the action takes place between the man and his partner remembering that it is not all 'man spanks woman' but also frequently they enjoy switching.
Most individuals and couples enjoy the chance to understand the way which offers THEM the most pleasure and also to explore the various instruments and find which suit them. Finally there are those couples who already have strong ideas of their scenario. I use these but try to show that in the end for most people the prepared scenario is no substitute for experimentation and PLAY.
What you should do if you would like to join a course:
Send me an E-Mail with any questions
I will reply by email immediately with an answer and my mobile telephone number
You then contact my mobile telephone number to discuss the proposal. This allows for anonymity on both sides until details of a meeting have been agreed
Arrange the day or weekend you want to visit me
Make the visit!
Everything I do is within the limits of the client and at no time will I get involved in "punishment flogging" as some SMs request. They have a different agenda to the Spanker.
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