The Disciplinarian

My Spanking Background!

Many years ago I met a friend who was having trouble with his wife Joan. He was concerned because although they were in love she was wasting their money, was teasing him with her purchases and seemed to have no shame. He told me that what she needed was a good spanking to bring her back to earth but he did not know how to deal with the situation. I suggested that he allowed me to talk to her and explain the problems he was having with her spending and lack of support.When I saw her I explained John's concerns and said that he felt that her behaviour needed punishment but he was too emotional to carry it out himself and would like me to do it for him. I would therefore be Spanking her but he would be there all the time to see that the situation did not get out of hand.

She was astounded but surprisingly agreed saying that while she still loved him she felt that he had no drive and lacked the strong character that she needed. I explained that he had asked me to spank her and although it was a punishment I was only prepared to do so with her agreement. She thought for a moment before agreeing and we decided that the next evening at seven o'clock I would return with some of the instruments and she would prepare herself by dressing in a simple short dress with suspenders, stockings and lacy panties and brassiere. John (her husband) would be present throughout.

This was my first experience and it went well with the couple being very satisfied. (See Spanking Examples to read exactly what happened.

Within a month or so I was asked by John if he could give my details to another couple who were having the same problems and I agreed. The same procedure was followed and the lady was spanked and a similar result ensued. From then on I have been receiving requests from other couples as well as ladies until I now have a regular clientele.

This was for punishment but as many clients come to me because they want to experience a spanking because they have dreamed of being spanked and want to try the reality.

For many ladies it is a chance, following a settled marriage with husband and children, to explore traits of their character which they have secretly dreamed of but never had the chsnce to experience. They have discovered my stories and, from there, have delved deeper into the site and find that I can offer them a CONFIDENTIAL spanking service with no strings attached. I do not ask for names and keep no telephone numbers I am given. I am not interested in age or size. I will not however work with ladies aged less than 21 years I am also careful when spanking to ensure that no marks are left for those ladies who have husbands to return to.

I even have two lesbians who I spank. Because no sex is involved they are happy for me to work with them.

On the Spanking Examples pages I will try to give various styles of spanking and on the Spanking Instruments page I show some of the "Tools of the Trade" with their use and information about them.

In How To Spank I try to show how to use the various implements.

I am always happy to receive emails from potential clients or people who want advice on how to proceed.